Dealing with the loss of a loved one can be overwhelming to your surviving family and friends, but pre-planning your funeral service can help them better deal with the stress of losing someone.

Choose the Type of Service You Want

Pre-planning your funeral service can not only ease the burden on your loved ones, but it helps ensure your final wishes are honored. While some families struggle with making those final decisions after losing someone, your family won’t have to worry with making those hard choices.

• Choose what funeral home you would like to use to handle your service.
• Decide what type of service you want (traditional, cremation, donation, etc…).
• If you choose a traditional service with burial, decide where you want to be buried, your clothing selection, and if there are any special requests for hair styling, makeup, etc.
• Meet with the pre-need counselor and look at your options for caskets and urns.
• Review options for service locations (funeral home, religious facility, sentimental building, graveside).
• What type of flowers arrangements do you want? Do you want flowers, or would you rather donations be given to a particular charity or a charity of one’s choice?
• Who will be a part of your service? You should decide on pallbearers and even ask them personally. You should also decide who you would like to officiate or participate in your service.
• Choose which songs you would like played at your service.
• Would you want an obituary published in a newspaper, or on the web? Make notes about information you would like to be included in your obituary. 

Choose Who You Want to be in Charge

Your family and friends want to take part in the process of fulfilling your final wishes. They only need instructions on what they need to do.

•  If you have a Will, make sure someone, preferably your executor or an attorney, has a copy.
• Give a family member or chosen friend a list of important accounts that will need to be contacted following your death. Some accounts may need to be closed, while some may remain open. A certified death certificate is usually required in most instances.
• Designate someone to be your power of attorney.
• Have someone prepared to cancel basic utility services and subscriptions.

Choose To Pay In Advance

Making decisions about your funeral service in advance can benefit you and your survivors financially. If possible, pay for all expenses in advance, freeing your family from that financial burden. One of the greatest benefits to pre-funding funeral goods and services is the ability to lock-in the price for those goods and services, leaving very little to no expenses remaining for your family to take care of when you pass away.

When possible, pre pay for:

• Cemetery services, burial plot
• All funeral arrangements including casket, urn, flowers, transportation and specialized services